Showing posts with label Relationships. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Relationships. Show all posts
Yesterday, my friend Rachel and I went to their house. Her father was there lying on the bed placed at the living room. All of the people there were just passing by him, completely ignoring what his current condition. Rachel and I went out for a while to go buy some food. When we got back to their house, everyone there was panicked. Rachel's father whom I fondly call Uncle, is acting strangely. He kept on laughing then suddenly gets mad. Then he collapsed. He was white all over.
We have administered first aid treatment and had him steamed in the portable sauna because he was constantly complaining pain on his stomach. I massaged him using essential oils. We gave him hot milk and gave him a sponge bath.
He later told me that he haven't been eating for 3 days already. His children are too busy doing their own business. Just passes by him. He felt alone and so depressed. That he thought of ending his life by not eating.
I really felt bad for him... I told Rachel about it, she felt so guilty. They organized a meeting. To discuss what care they could give their father, now that he is old and needs them more than ever.
I just hope I have instilled good values to my daughter. One day, we will all be old. Will there be someone to take good care of us? Show us love and attention? Just form lasting and loving relationships with those important to you... I surely don't want to end up in the elderly home someday... How about you?
All of us have probably experienced rivalry among our siblings. Whether it is the attention of our parents or each others achievements. I have 3 brothers, the eldest and the only daughter... My brother who is next to me is the one I am constantly having problems with. He is 4 years my junior. Although we don't argue or fight that much, I just hate it when he thinks that he is loved more by our dad. We are both children of our mom and dad and our other 2 brothers are my mothers son from her boyfriend after our parents separated.
Back to the story. Our dad, still supports us financially. When I was still studying, Dad, pays for my tuition and allowances. Now that I have finished schooling, My dad then supported my brothers education.
Now that Dad, sends money to him, he thinks he is loved more than me. I really don't mind that much, because I know it is not true. He always brings it up, that he is more favored than me, to a point that it becomes so annoying.
Until at what point should we be patient with our brothers? What if they hurt our feelings? I don't want to be mad at him, but I hope he changes his ways. It is not all the time that our dad will be there to support him financially. He spends money like a king... Like theres no tomorrow. He did not enroll at college. Just spent his money to his friends. I hope one day he will realize what he is doing is wrong.
Today is a really bad day... To start of, I had an argument with my landlady. It is about money matter's. Probably almost everyone these days are arguing over money. Too bad, where's the happiness laid on? Does it really mean, people can't be happy without money? Another one of my close friend called me just before lunch. He said his girlfriend broke it off with him, again, because he has no money. And that the said girl was really tired of having nothing. What is happening these days? There's no more peace and harmony, love is all gone and replaced with hate... I hope things will change, soon...
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Love never fails? Or does it? In my opinion, as far as love is concerned, it depends on how you view the aspect of love. If you are a type of person who no matter how much hurt have come your way, still manage to get up and fall in love again, I guess love never fails for them. But if you are one like many others who have fallen deeply fallen in love and have betrayed by the person you've loved. Have gone drinking and feeling miserable, welcome to the club... :) That was before anyway...
Love is really a wonderful feeling, when both of you are still in to each other. Reality somehow steps in and ruin everything. I hate to be biased in my opinion. I have been in love for a lot of times already. Been happy, sad, excited, duped, broken, every other feeling about love has come my way... In the end, it all comes to being compatible and being friends with the person you love.
Love is really a wonderful feeling, when both of you are still in to each other. Reality somehow steps in and ruin everything. I hate to be biased in my opinion. I have been in love for a lot of times already. Been happy, sad, excited, duped, broken, every other feeling about love has come my way... In the end, it all comes to being compatible and being friends with the person you love.
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When all the physical beauty falters, all that's left is being a good companion and friend. What if you don't have much in common? You end up looking for another person to supplement what is lacking in your life.
Just a thought, choose from the heart... Find your soul mate...
Just a thought, choose from the heart... Find your soul mate...
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